I can't remember where I first spied this beautiful piece of decor and history in one lovely little frame, but it's been on my wishlist ever since. Most family trees aren't something I'd want to hang on my wall, but this one from My Tree and Me looks like an abstract piece of art, but on closer inspection, gives you a view of your family going back seven generations.
My father is the family genealogist, having inherited the bug from an aunt who went to great pains to trace their family's roots back as far as possible. When she died, my dad picked up the trail and has found connections for his family going all the way back to William the Conqueror and of course, the ancestor all people of European descent share, Charlemagne.
One thing that has held me back from ordering this beautiful tree is that I don't know nearly as much about my mom's family. In fact, in some cases, I can look back only three generations. This is fairly common for most people. I think the reason I care so much is that my mom suffers from Alzheimer's. Now it isn't her lack of memory that is preventing us from filling in these blanks (she already shared what she could years ago), but with my grief so raw and ever present, I think the empty spaces on the tree would just feel like a cruel reminder that I'm losing more and more of her each day.
So, I'm inspired to try to fill in those blanks myself.
Coincidentally, there are two recent television series that have helped to feed this interest. One you probably saw advertised constantly during the Olympics -- Who Do You Think You Are?. The first episode (now available online) was an enjoyable look into two of Sarah Jessica Parker's ancestors. PBS also recently ran a series called Faces of America, which also took a look into family histories through the lens of celebrities, but with a bit more of a scholarly and philosophical tone. You can watch it online on PBS' website.
Faces of America took an interesting twist when it added DNA research into the mix. Henry Louis Gates, Jr. and his father both had their entire genome sequenced by a company called Knome. It was almost surreal when he walked into the Harvard Club and was presented with a silver box containing all of his DNA information.
Though I'd love to get those details, at a price of $68,500 it's not something I'll be able to do.
The show also used a less detailed, but still fascinating option from 23andme. This made for one of the funniest moments from Faces of America, when Stephen Colbert was informed that he was a 100% white man.
With 23andme, you can get some handy dandy pie charts (who doesn't love pie charts?) and other interesting information tracing your history through your DNA to the places on the globe where your earliest ancestors were found. The price is a lot more palatable, so I might actually order that DNA research tool at some point when I'm feeling more flush.
Though I wish I had the resources of a Henry Louis Gates, Jr. to help me, for now, I'm playing around with Ancestry.com and trying to fill in those blanks that I'm missing. I already found a few new branches to my tree. With a little help from my dad, that site and my mom's family, maybe I can pull together enough information so that I can finally order that beautiful family tree and hang it proudly on my wall.